I promise I haven’t fallen off the face of the earth. I’ve just been hibernating…sorta. I’ve been wanting to write again, but I quickly realized I’d get nowhere with all those ideas floating in my head until I wrote about our move.
Some back story: Husband Darling and I had been talking about moving into our own place after six years of living with my mother as a couple (eleven for Kidlet and me altogether). My mom and I have a really good relationship, but we had been butting heads over how to run the household. We compromised a great deal, but there were a few things neither of us could let go and change. Nothing wrong with either of our ways. just not compatible in the same house. So HD and I started looking around Portland to see about becoming home owners ourselves. We quickly realized that based on our income, there was no way we could afford to buy a house where we wanted to live.
Then in September 2015 SweetBee made an emergency trip to Tucson to see her Tata (grandfather) who fell very ill and was not expected to pull through. In the weeks she was gone, she decided to stay to be her Nana’s (grandmother) caregiver after her Tata passed and get her out of the hellaciously expensive nursing home she was in. She knew I had desires to travel the country and suggested we could stay with her on occasion as a home base. Seed planted years ago just took root and sprouted.
That winter was less than kind to me healthwise. My chronic pain always worsened in that time of year, but this time I had finally started seeing my acupuncturist friend who diagnosed me with chronic inflammation. I already knew my main allergen is mold. If you know anything about the Pacific NW, you know it rains a crap ton there. Mold is inevitable no matter what time of year. HD and I flew down to Tucson in February to see our SweetBee and visit the area. We both noticed a dramatic decrease in body pain. Mine went from my usual of 6-7/10 to nearly non-existent. Even HD noted that an absence of pain he didn’t realize he had until it wasn’t present. Huh. Dry heat it is!
The next few months we made plans to move to Tucson after the school year ended for Kidlet. We packed, we visited friends and family, and we even hosted a bon voyage party in June to say farewell to everyone we could. SweetBee had flown up to help us finish packing and drive our moving truck to Arizona. We left on the afternoon of July 9th with sullen teenager and three freaked-out cats in tow. Fortunately we pulled into Tucson in time for tacos made by SweetBee’s dad, Papa Bear, with only a few mishaps along the way. I had forgotten to replace the gas cap (it wasn’t attached to the tank opening) when I went into the station to get the receipt, and it flew off the step where I placed it as we were driving down the road. We had to MacGyver it with a hair tie and plastic bag until we could get a replacement from U-Haul the next day. HD had also misplaced his debit card on that same fuel stop and canceled his card right away. Turned out he had stashed it in a nook on the dash and forgotten he’d done so. We spent a few frantic minutes searching for missing kitties who found a hidden, seemingly inaccessible space under the motel bed. I was certain they escaped the door as we were bringing in overnight bags. Certainly worse things have happened in a move across the country (okay, just 1500 miles), so I’m grateful that was the worst of it.
Papa Bear graciously opened his home and allowed us to stay with them for the next year. Six adults in one house was tight, but we made it work as best we could. Husband and I started house hunting about two years ago. After three months of searching with our amazing and hilarious realtor, we found this cute little house on the southwest side. When we first entered we both felt like the house was welcoming us home. We found it charming and cozy. Bees had attempted to take up residence in the roof, so I took that as our sign that this house was supposed to be ours. I did the proverbial “I licked it, it’s mine!” thing. Only one other showing happened in the two weeks it took us to finally make an offer. It was a roller coaster ride of loops and twists, but we finally closed on June 28, 2017 and took possession of our new home a week later. We named our house Casita del Girasol, and we love her.
Home ownership has stretched our adulting skills. Girasol has much potential that we’d like to build upon once we have the fundage. There’s a storage shed in back I want to convert into a guest house. All the windows need to be replaced. I want to add an Arizona catio off the back where our bedroom is and solar panels for the house. At some point we’ll need to replace the 10+ year old HVAC and the roof. That’s just the short list!
So that’s the last few years in a nutshell. All to say: I’m Baaaaa-aaaack!